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<title>Hark The Herald 2: Sunday, December 15, 2024 | Cowboy State Daily</title>

Hark The Herald 2: Sunday, December 15, 2024

 The late, great Joan Rivers: "As a Jew, we have a shi**ty time at Christmas...."

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Kolby Fedore

Wyoming Life

Entertainment

Every August, the highways to South Dakota begin to thunder as hordes of bikers pour into the Black Hills.

What began in 1938 with the Jackpine Gypsies Motorcycle Club has grown into one of the most famous motorcycle gatherings in the world. 

Some have made the trip for decades. Others are rolling into the Sturgis Motorcycle Rally for the first time.

Greg Griswold remembers the first time he approached Sturgis from Gillette on Interstate 90.

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At home, he drives a truck in the oil field. His wife, Toni, works as an assistant manager at an apartment complex. Between them, they have four children and eight grandchildren.

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Amid all that freedom are a few unwritten rules, and one false move can get you punched in the face — or worse, a full-out ass-kicking.

A 20-something-year-old stone mason from Sheridan who goes by Grout is heading to Sturgis for the first time for the 86

 annual rally, which began Friday and runs through Aug. 16.

Newly single, Grout — aka Sean Severs — said he's especially looking forward to "the party." He said this while packing up his tent for the campgrounds. 

This year, he's riding alongside a Sheridan biker known as Coach, a Sturgis veteran tasked with showing the first-timer the ropes.

For Grout, the draw is the "vibe" — meeting people, seeing new places, and being surrounded by thousands of people that share his love of chrome.

But every first-timer eventually learns there is more to Sturgis than showing up and having a good time.

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Bob Pruitt has spent 45 years in the saddle and has made the trip to Sturgis more than half a dozen times.

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The modern-day mountain man stands over 6 feet tall, and is bald and broad-shouldered, with enormous paws, a scraggly gray-and-white beard and piercing blue eyes.

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Maybe that's because Pretty Bobbie has been around long enough to know where the trouble is — and how to stay out of it.

His advice for anyone headed to Sturgis is simple: Have fun, pay attention, and understand the unwritten rules before you accidentally break one.

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Pretty Bobbie's advice is concise: "You want to touch a motorcycle, get your own."

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Sturgis can offer everything from battered old Harleys coaxed across several states to meticulous customs that cost staggering amounts of money and craftsmanship.

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Griswold said an easy way to attract the wrong kind of attention is to show up wearing motorcycle-club insignia you haven't earned.

The sleeveless vest is commonly called a "cut," he said. Patches can identify a club, chapter or territory, including the curved "bottom rocker."

"A good way (to get your ass kicked) is show up with a cut that is flashing the wrong bottom rocker," Griswold said about the arched patches across the back of vests that usually indicates what territory a rider is from.

An experienced club member may recognize that an outsider simply doesn't know better, "but don't bet on it."

For a prospect, as in someone who wants to join some of the more notorious clubs, “he’s trying to prove to the club that he’s willing to go the extra mile for the club.”

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"The 1% badge is only for those who have actually done the deed, and we’re talking — we’re talking death,” he said. "They’ve taken a life.” 

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Pretty Bobbie said problems at the Sturgis rally begin the same way they do everywhere else.

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Then people start talking trash, getting overly friendly or asking questions of people who clearly don't want to answer them.

"The way to run afoul on a biker is messing with his bike, mess with his old lady, start talking shit or asking too many questions," he said. 

Want to make friends? “Nod to them,” he said. "If they nod back, yeah, you'd probably be all right talking to them. If they don't nod back, leave them alone. They don't want to be messed with.

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A surefire way to get your ass kicked at Sturgis is by "messing with someone's old lady,” Pretty Bobbie continued.

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In biker culture, Pretty Bobbie said calling a woman “old lady” is "the utmost term of respect."

"If you hear a guy say, 'This is my wife,' he loves her," Pruitt said. "You got a guy say, 'Yeah, this is my old lady,' he'll kill for her."

Problems often begin when the drinks start flowing and guys start getting a little too friendly.

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"I'd set the world on fire for her," he said. "She's everything to me."

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Whether it's your first ride to Sturgis or your 40th, the goal is the same: Don't make it your last.

By Saturday during the 2025 rally, the South Dakota Highway Patrol had already recorded 58 injury crashes and four fatal crashes in the western part of the state. There were also 103 DUI arrests by that point. 

Griswold said riders communicate constantly, even among strangers. They use formations and signals to warn each other about trouble ahead.

Last year, he and Toni were riding on Interstate 90 when another rider warned them about debris in the road.

Someone had apparently lost a comforter. It blew across the highway and directly into Griswold's path.

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They hit it, but the warning had at least given him time to prepare, and they kept right on cruising. 

"There's a lot of respect among the guys that are out there riding together, even if they don't know each other," Griswold said. 

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For all the warnings, Griswold said this may be the most important rule. People having a good time are less likely to have conflict with others and get their asses kicked.

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"Everybody is there ultimately to have a good time," Griswold said. "The good time can be rough and rowdy. It can be as mellow as you want it, and everything in between. It just depends on what you want to do." 

"Just have the road open in front of me," he said, "and just be able to go anywhere I want, whenever I want, with just what's packed on the bike." 

For Ucross biker John "Bear" Stanebrook, it's the wind in his face and the freedom — and he hopes everyone else finds their own version of that fun. That's the beauty of Sturgis.

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<title>How To Avoid Getting Your Ass Kicked At The Annual Sturgis Motorcycle Rally | Cowboy State Daily</title>

With the annual Sturgis Motorcycle Rally kicking off this weekend, many bikers offered tips on how to avoid getting your ass kicked at the celebration. One 45-year vet says "Understand the unwritten rules before you accidentally break one."

How To Avoid Getting Your Ass Kicked At The Annual Sturgis Motorcycle Rally

Zakary Sonntag

Law Enforcement

Food

Sweet Zoey mediterranean restaurant in Casper is known for its baklava and kebabs.

Four customers ordered those items and more during a lunch hour last May, running up quite the tab – then quietly running out the door.   

“They ate everything, appetizers, drinks, sweets, mains, everything,” said owner Zoey Aldahash.

“Then the four of them stood up in the same moment together, they walked to the door, and once they opened the door, they ran to the car — they were 

It was not her first experience with unpaying customers at this restaurant in the city’s Westridge neighborhood.

Unlike before, however, this time she chose not to involve the police. She looked to social media instead.

From the business’s security cameras, Aldahash posted an image of the alleged offenders to the restaurant’s Facebook page and asked the community for help identifying them.

Locals piled into the comments with a stone soup of reaction.

“How disgusting! Make sure their photos are plastered everywhere so they can be banned from everywhere. People like them should never be allowed anywhere 😡,” said one user.

Another customer was so disheartened she offered to help cover the loss. 

“If they dont come fwd I can swing in 65$ of the bill. I know it's not all of it but it's half,” the person said.

The responses show how neighborhood restaurants can feel like a natural extension of a community itself. In the case of Sweet Zoey, it's a reputation earned from years of hard work.

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Aldahash, an Iraqi native with deep brown eyes and coffee-colored skin, worked as an architectural engineer before pivoting to a career of passion.

She began selling small batches of baklava at the farmers market. Small batches turned to big batches that turned to additional offerings like hummus and specialty bread. Each week, demand rose.

“It was selling out every time and I had people asking me to make more and more and more,” she said, “I reached a point where I couldn’t do it from my home anymore.” 

She moved to a commercial kitchen, then into a bigger space at southside shopping center, and eventually in 2022 into the full-service restaurant on CY Avenue where the business is today.

Despite a loyal customer base, not all support how Aldahash handled the dine-and-dash incident.

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In the image she posted online, commenters noted that the group resembled a family of four with two teenage children.

Their presumed youth was an issue for many.

“Advice from a former manager and business owner, Call the police and report instead of posting on Facebook, especially with children in the photo,” one person wrote.

That opinion was shared by many commenters. It’s also shared by the Casper Police Department (CPD). 

Rebekah Ladd, public information officer for CPD, told Cowboy State Daily social media will often bring useful information to investigators, but it can also result in undue accusations, misidentification or harassment, which raises additional concerns if juveniles are involved.

“Posting (images) publicly is typically not the most appropriate tactic at the beginning of a dine-and-dash investigation,” Ladd said.

“Businesses should be especially cautious when juveniles may be involved … particularly when the full circumstances are not known.”

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To the mind of Zoey Aldahash, however, the circumstances are clear enough. 

“These people came here and they intended to steal,” she said.

Pour Decisions Bar and Grill in Cheyenne also looked first to social media for help identifying a man who fed his family of four and left without paying in November 2025. 

Although in this instance, the images were cropped to reveal only the group’s patriarch, and the bar owner expressed a hope to resolve the issue amicably without involving authorities.

Locals expressed a range of feelings, but similar to Sweet Zoey, the majority opinion here was summed up best by the commenter who wrote, “Put this on Cheyenne Community Connection … really call him out.”

Aldahash chose not to involve police in May because she still has a sour taste from the last time she looked to CPD for help.

In 2024, a group of five ordered multiple entrees each and then left without paying, she said. After filing an initial report, investigators did not respond to her requests for updates and nothing became of the case, she said.

“In my previous experience, calling the police didn't work. There was no help, so I didn't contact the police the second time,” she said.

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Dine and dash incidents are categorized in police reports as crimes of “False Pretenses/Fraud,” which can include things like a person who takes a taxi ride and then leaves without paying the fare, Ladd explained.

In 2025, CPD tallied 626 cases of false pretenses and fraud, up 18% from the 531 cases reported in 2024, and up from 404 cases in 2023, according to public records.

However, dine-and-dash theft accounts for only a fraction of the department’s false pretense reports, totaling between 20-30 per year, according to Ladd.

“(Dine-and-dash) reports are not especially common in Casper,” Ladd said.

“CPD staff estimate the department receives roughly a couple of ‘dine-and-dash’ reports per month on average.”

Yet there’s reason to believe the problem is underreported. 

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At Little Shop of Burgers, a horror-themed restaurant with campy decor in north Casper, owner Sarah Woodward did not involve the police the first time she had dine-and-dash customers. 

Nor did she involve them the second time. Nor the time after that.

“I just feel like the police have better things to do,” she said. “I also wonder, what could they even do?”

Officers will interview staff, review receipts and surveillance video before making a determination about intent and whether probable cause exists, according to Ladd.

In addition to three instances of theft of services, Woodward might also have filed multiple reports of theft of merchandise; for reasons she’s hard pressed to understand, customers often make off with the restaurant’s dolls and laminate menus. 

“In February, we got 55 new menus. Right now we’re down to 15,” said Woodward. “I don’t even get how they’d smuggle them out. Maybe they shove them under their skirts.”

Instead of calling police, she calls on staff to boost vigilance.

“We’ve just tried to keep a closer eye on things,” she said, with a shrug of resignation. 

Elsewhere in Natrona County, restaurant managers have police on speed dial.

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At the Texas Roadhouse in Evansville, manager Juan Soto said he sees about five dine-and-dash incidents per year.

The most recent example stands out. It was a rowdy table in June, and Soto was suspicious from the start.

“They're a real rowdy bunch. They came in really late at night, and I kind of knew that the table was going to be some sort of an issue,” Soto said, explaining he’s developed an intuition after 25 years in the industry. 

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The table’s bill soared above $200, but when it was time to settle up, they conspicuously headed outside at once. Sotto stopped them at the door and asked to put a card on file. 

After an awkward back and forth, one of them finally agreed to pick up the bill. The problem was he didn’t have any money.

 “They all left except for one dude, but this dude tried three different credit cards and he did not have any money in his account,” he said, describing the group demographically as “in their mid-40s.” 

The man said he’d return with payment the following day; Soto said no. In the end, the man’s mother came to the restaurant to bail him out.

“It was sad. The old lady had to get out on her oxygen and her walker to come in here and pay their bill,” he said.

Unlike Aldahash and Woodward, Soto has no reservations about involving the police.

“In Evansville, the police take really good care of me because I've built this relationship with them,” he said, explaining that he and police approach dine-and-dash incidents with the same overall assumption. 

“People are generally good people. It's just those few cases you get in this industry, and you need to hold people accountable.”

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At Sweet Zoey, accountability has not yet arrived, and she’s left suspended between frustration, gratitude, and a kind of weary bemusement.

“You come in and order this much, and just leave without paying?” she said. “Who are these people?”

But she’s quick to pivot to the people who do show up for her: the regulars who offer to cover strangers’ bills, the customers who fill her dining room and comment with affection on the restaurant’s socials.

“Sometimes it’s like you don’t know if you want to cry or smile,” she said.

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<title>After Being Hit Again By Dine-And-Dashers, Casper Restaurant Skips Police | Cowboy State Daily</title>

After being hit again by thieves who dined and dashed, the owner of Sweet Zoey restaurant in Casper posted photos of the offenders instead of calling the police. "They intended to steal,” she said, noting that calling the police in the past didn't work.

After Being Hit Again By Dine-And-Dashers, Casper Restaurant Skips Police

Guest Column

Guest Columnists

The only thing hotter than my Boston Red Sox (a record of 31-5 since June 25) is the record of the states that refused to turn over their confidential statewide voter registration lists (SVRLs) to the Department of Justice (DOJ).   

The DOJ sued 30 states and the District of Columbia to compel the release of their unredacted voter logs, containing confidential personal information.  

But as of Friday, federal judges have dismissed 21 of those cases, ruling the DOJ had no right to these records.  

More cases await decisions. But with a record of 0 for 21, the DOJ’s prospects are dismal.  

At a recent oral argument before the federal court in Washington, the DOJ attorneys admitted the relevant facts involved in the Washington case were the same as in the other cases that had already been dismissed.  

I expect the Washington case is a prime candidate to be the 22

But here in Wyoming we never had a chance to dispute the DOJ’s unprecedented snatching of our confidential voter logs, because our Secretary of State, Chuck Gray, voluntarily turned it over last August without telling the public.  

Rather than stand up for the privacy rights of Wyoming voters that Wyoming election law guarantees, Gray sent the DOJ everything it requested - and then boasted that he had been the first in the nation to turn over these records. 

While the baseball pundits may be divided about the reasons for the Red Sox resurgence, the reasons for the 21 federal court orders dismissing the DOJ complaints are not hard to understand.  

When challenged the DOJ has been unable to produce any legal authority to justify its demand for confidential logs from any state. 

First, before the DOJ can demand voter records from state election officials under the Civil Rights Act (CRA), it must specify the basis and the purpose for the demand in writing.  

Court after court has held that the DOJ letters to the states demanding the logs, letters which were essentially identical to the letter that Gray received, failed to satisfy this simple condition. 

Second, the logs created and maintained by the states are not voter records covered by the act, which only requires states to retain and not alter voting records that “come into their possession.”  

These are things like the registration forms filled out by voters and submitted through the county clerks.   

But the logs containing the confidential personal information about registered voters are electronic files created by the states.  

The logs are regularly updated and changed to reflect the addition of newly registered voters and the deletion of other voters, who have moved, passed away or otherwise fallen out of the system.  

In short, the voter logs are living electronic documents.  

Requiring the voter registration logs to be preserved without alteration under the CRA would conflict with the state’s duty to maintain a current voter list in compliance with other federal laws.

The Wyoming voter roll created and maintained by the Wyoming Secretary of State was no more subject to the federal law than the ones maintained in New Hampshire, West Virginia or any of the other states that have successfully protected their records from this unlawful and unwarranted federal intrusion.

In Colorado, Judge Phil Brimmer recently held “Colorado’s SVRL is not a record or paper that must be produced pursuant to [the CRA]”.  

He may be a Colorado judge, but he is also a true son of Wyoming, whose father was Clarence Brimmer, a respected Wyoming federal judge before whom I practiced.  

I think Clarence would be proud to see that this acorn did not fall far from the tree.

So, why didn’t Gray recognize these obvious defects?  

Didn’t he know the law, or did he just choose to ignore it?  Was it incompetence or something else?  

Does Gray have anything to counter the weight of the 21 written decisions of the federal judges, who have ruled the DOJ had no right to this information? 

Gray just says he worked “in close consultation with the attorney general” and that together “we agree that the disclosure of the requested records is proper under the Civil Rights Act.”  

Gray has hidden behind a claim that the Wyoming attorney general approved his decision, whenever anyone has questioned his decision.  

But he has refused to show us any proof of what the attorney general actually said.  Apparently, Gray does not trust us to use our own eyes and our own common sense.

Guest columnist George Powers writes, "But here in Wyoming we never had a chance to dispute the DOJ’s unprecedented snatching of our confidential voter logs, because our Secretary of State, Chuck Gray, voluntarily turned it over last August without telling the public.”

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